An 8 year ride for kids

Put an end to Bullying & Adolescent Suicide

In year 3 of this mission, I introduced a bicycle ride to my travels to raise
awareness about issues kids are having to deal with at far too young an age.
Bullying and Adolescent Suicide are two of these challenging burdens most kids
will unfairly have to overcome throughout the remainder of their lives. At rides
end we will have ridden enough miles to traveled the perimeter of the earth, twice.
My mission on this ride has but one focus: To save kids lives.

The Most Important Lifeline

October 7th, 2012
10-7-12The following is taken from the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline’s website:

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The phone number is 1-800-273-TALK (8255) Since its inception, the Lifeline has engaged in a variety of initiatives to improve crisis services and advance suicide prevention.

Risk factors are often confused with warning signs of suicide, and frequently suicide prevention materials mix the two into lists of “what to watch out for.” It is important to note, however, that factors identified as increasing risk are not factors that cause or predict a suicide attempt. Risk factors are characteristics that make it more likely that an individual will consider, attempt, or die by suicide. Protective factors are characteristics that make it less likely that individuals will consider, attempt, or die by suicide.

Risk Factors for Suicide

  • Mental disorders, particularly mood disorders, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders and certain personality disorders
  • Alcohol and other substance use disorders
  • Hopelessness
  • Impulsive and/or aggressive tendencies
  • History of trauma or abuse
  • Major physical illnesses
  • Previous suicide attempt
  • Family history of suicide
  • Job or financial loss
  • Loss of relationship
  • Easy access to lethal means
  • Local clusters of suicide
  • Lack of social support and sense of isolation
  • Stigma associated with asking for help
  • Lack of health care, especially mental health and substance abuse treatment
  • Cultural and religious beliefs, such as the belief that suicide is a noble resolution of a personal dilemma
  • Exposure to others who have died by suicide (in real life or via the media and Internet)

Protective Factors for Suicide

  • Effective clinical care for mental, physical and substance use disorders
  • Easy access to a variety of clinical interventions
  • Restricted access to highly lethal means of suicide
  • Strong connections to family and community support
  • Support through ongoing medical and mental health care relationships
  • Skills in problem solving, conflict resolution and handling problems in a non-violent way
  • Cultural and religious beliefs that discourage suicide and support self-preservation

USS Michael Murphy

October 6th, 2012

10-6-12Today in New York City the US Navy officially commissioned the USS Michael Murphy which is named for Navy SEAL, Michael Murphy who lost his life in Afghanistan while trying to save the lives of the other members of his SEAL team.
This was an event I did not want to miss so I headed on The Kindness Bicycle to the New York Harbor for the ceremony. The event was more joyful than solemn, as the Lieutenant’s life was celebrated by his parents, family, friends and dignitaries, including Secretary of the Navy Ray Mabus.
As The Kindness Bicycle Ride for Heroes is about to begin its final week, I am reminded of all the Heroes I have met across the United States during this 9 month tribute ride. It has been a true honor.

Creavos Development Group

October 5th, 2012
10-5-12I have known Brad Owen for more than 20 years and have always admired his caring nature. Two years ago I contacted him about managing and making some major updates to the One Million Acts Of Kindness website. He and I talked through those changes and that I didn’t have funds budgeted for a design change, it is then that his caring side overrode his business side and he “volunteered” his firm to do the necessary work. He has been working passionately, behind the scenes, to keep this website up to date and easy to navigate. I would recommend his firm, Creavos, www.creavos.com for all of your business and personal needs when it comes to building, managing and marketing a website.
The following are a few passages taken from the Creavos website:
We are extremely passionate and understand the web from a unique perspective. We manage, build, and create our own private sites, thus we understand what it means to need a change right away, an email set up pronto, or the need for traffic, “Constant Traffic”. We understand the ins and outs of business operation, coupled with an intense understanding of the web, marketing, and hardware and server operations.

Creavos offers around the clock coverage, supporting companies small and large across the globe. Our foundation is built on state-of-the-art coding tecniques resulting in superior site loading times, out of the box search engine optimized content, and integral browser compliancy.                             Thank you Brad, for the continual great work and caring ethic, making the One Million Acts Of Kindness website an easy to navigate and an informative site on the web.

More News for Bogart

October 4th, 2012

10-4-12The Kindness Bus and Bogart were spotted in DUMBO this past weekend by a News 12 Brooklyn reporter. I was contacted by Philip their producer about doing a piece on One Million Acts Of Kindness and the interview took place today. Justin Gunn and Steven Harasymiak, the 2 reporters who came out for the interview wanted to know all about the founding of One Million Acts Of Kindness and of course, all about Bogart. Bogart must have doing his best to let everyone who passed by The Kindness Bus about his existence on the face of the earth. He is a bigger “ham” than I.
With only 2 stops left on The Kindness Bicycle Ride for Heroes, I am busy with fine tuning for the upcoming Ring Our Country with Kindness (R.O.C.K) ride. This ride addressing Bullying and Adolescent Suicide is hugely popular with most everyone I pedal past. I always stop and talk with parents with children present as these topics of discussion are high on their list of concerns.
To me, a lifetime goal of kindness in one’s life is the most positive deterrent to bullying. Please!!!, if you haven’t taken the pledge of One Million Acts Of Kindness, print a Kindness Certificate located on the upper left hand corner of this website for everyone in your family.

The Jed Foundation

October 3rd, 2012
10-3-12I visited The Jed Foundation in Manhattan today to talk with John MacPhee, its Executive Director. Being the leading organization addressing issues related to mental health and suicide in the college population, I felt the necessity of letting them know about my upcoming Ring Our Country with Kindness ride.
The following is taken directly from their website, www.jedfoundation.org which I highly recommend visiting.

The Jed Foundation’s mission is to promote emotional health and prevent suicide among college and university students. To achieve this end, the organization collaborates with the public and leaders in higher education, mental health, and research to produce and advance initiatives that:

  • Increase understanding of the warning signs of suicide and emotional disorders and the fact that emotional distress can be managed, mental illness treated and suicide prevented.
  • Facilitate adoption of a comprehensive, community-based approach to mental health promotion and suicide prevention on campuses
  • Foster help-seeking so that those who need supportive services reach out to secure them, or are referred to services by a peer
  • Build & strengthen resilience, coping skills and connectedness among young adults, their peers, families and communities
  • Raise the importance of mental health services, policies and programs in the college selection process of students and parents

Hang on to Your Life With All Your Might

October 2nd, 2012

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We Stop Hate

October 1st, 2012

10-1-12I met Emily-Anne Rigal on the set of GimmeMo a couple of nights ago. Two years ago, at the age of 16, Emily-Anne founded We Stop Hate because she wanted to share her story about overcoming bullying. She created a website where others could share their stories and help them overcome the hurt caused by bullying. She is a driving force, helping kids realize the power of “teen esteem.” Everyone is urged to write letters to themselves as a reminder of the positive aspects of their lives. Teens who are happy won’t put others down.
Visit this wonderful website to see some of the great work they are doing at www.westophate.org
Thank you Emily-Anne for the lives you are impacting in such a powerful way.