An 8 year ride for kids

Put an end to Bullying & Adolescent Suicide

In year 3 of this mission, I introduced a bicycle ride to my travels to raise
awareness about issues kids are having to deal with at far too young an age.
Bullying and Adolescent Suicide are two of these challenging burdens most kids
will unfairly have to overcome throughout the remainder of their lives. At rides
end we will have ridden enough miles to traveled the perimeter of the earth, twice.
My mission on this ride has but one focus: To save kids lives.

What a Difference a Bike Makes

May 27th, 2013

5-27-13On yesterday’s flight from San Francisco to Cleveland, I packed up the  dismantled signs and support from The Kindness Bicycle and squeezed them into my checked bag. I was offered the use of my son Peter’s bicycle for the nearly three weeks that I will be in the east. I was happy to learn how fast the existing signage was able to fit the new ride. I was also very happy to learn how easy it is to ride his bike. It is such an ease to get up to speed without much effort at all. Clearly, The Kindness Bicycle could use a major overhaul, but as long as it has two pedals and two wheels, it is all I need to get my message out to the masses.
Today is Memorial Day, a day to honor those who sacrificed so much to protect our freedoms. Try to take some time each day going forward, to keep their memory in your heart.

Long Day of Travel

May 26th, 2013

5-26-13I think I am going to have to fire myself as a travel agent. My three leg trip to get from San Francisco to Cleveland took more than 25 hours to get from door to door. With airfare in the $600 – $800 range, flying east would not have been doable. Enter, Bob the travel agent.
Booking a 5:30 AM three leg trip from San Francisco through Denver and Houston to Cleveland was not so much the hard part, but having to park The Kindness Bus and take a shuttle 11 hours before flight time was. It meant having to sleep in the terminal and on planes as I made my way east. Needless to say, I got about an hour of rest. I am going to be catching up on sleep, for having to fly on the cheap, for the next few days. I was however, able to make some great people connections on this $240 bargain basement fare.

Courage

May 25th, 2013

5-25-13Team up to stop bullying is a nationwide campaign started by retailer, Sears, but is run on the local level by groups in towns across the United States. In Petaluma, California, Bill Kizer is very involved in helping to stop bullying. Having a teenage daughter, Bill keeps active by organizing events which gives kids a voice and raises awareness. Tonight he had a dance for 300 kids in the area.
Team Up to Stop Bullying provides much-needed resources to parents, children, educators and communities and will help Americans understand that bullying is a not a normal part of childhood,” said Marie Newman, bullying solutions author and managing director of Team Up to Stop Bullying. “Every seven minutes a child is bullied at school and studies show that schools with an anti-bullying program see a decrease in bullying up to 50 percent. While there isn’t one single fix to every bullying problem, there are proven solutions and services that are implemented.

Memorial Weekend

May 24th, 2013

5-24-13Every town I have visited these past four years have had a monument honoring the men and women from their community who have given their lives while protecting our freedoms. I like taking some time at these memorials to reflect on the significance of their sacrifice. These memorials serve as reminders to all of us. They are one way to keep the memory alive.
Spending time honoring those who gave their lives is a great way to show respect and a nice way to set an example for children.
Memorial Day or weekend for that matter can serve to remind us of these Heroes but it can also serve to remind us to make a habit of honoring them all year long.

Wearing My Heart on My head

May 23rd, 2013

5-23-13The bicycle helmet I have worn on my head for the past two years sums up the passion I have for helping to make kid’s lives better. I have just recently discovered the creative design of my helmet and feel it fits the Ring Our Country with Kindness ride, perfectly. Overcoming bullying with kindness is quite possibly the best non confrontational method to achieve a peaceful solution to any aggression.

I Have Another Hero, Her Name is Sarah

May 22nd, 2013
5-22-13Sarah is a young woman, small in stature but who has a passion as huge as this world. A passion to help others. With her very big heart, she is gonna do only good for those who are hurting inside. She realizes how important her life is to others and wants to give back to let them know that they are not alone in their thoughts, not alone in their pain, not alone in their depression, not alone in their loneliness. There are millions who have gone through or are going through what she has experienced.
Her story, in her own words below, capture with pure perfection, the words written near the bottom of my handout sheet, “You are needed and you are loved!!”
Hello everyone! My name is Sarah, and I’m a 21-year old college student. I am currently recovering from major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, and I have features of borderline personality disorder. This all began when I was only eleven years old, and had been sexually abused by a family friend I had trusted my entire life. Over the next ten years, more hardship came, including losing my home, my father leaving us for his mistress, my mother falling into suicidal depression, and me attempting to take my life three times in 2012. I have also struggled with self-harm for six years, and am currently battling that and depression with my psychiatrist. Despite all of this, I am alive today, and I will share why.

I am alive because of love. My entire life, I have been surrounded by love. It has come from family, friends, and, most importantly, from God. As a Christian, I have always had God as my crutch, the One I hang on to when things get bad. Because of this, my mission in life is simply to love like He does. I want others to know that I care, that I love them, and that I want to help them. I want to hold everyone and wipe their tears for them, and remind them that they are not alone. I want to do everything I can to help those who are hurting, because I know what it is like to be hurting. And most of all, I want to help people love themselves. We are just as deserving of our own love as we are of others’. We matter, too, and I want for everyone to see him/herself as lovable. This means accepting our flaws, taking care of ourselves, and choosing to do what’s best for us. It means spoiling ourselves once in a while, and treating ourselves with respect and care.  It means knowing that we are worth it. And if I can do all of this even just for one person, then all of my struggles will have been worth it
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Need a Bigger Safety Pin

May 21st, 2013

5-21-13A safety pin has so many uses in a survival situation. It can be used to take out splinters, mend clothing or gear, to make a finger splint, replace a zipper puller, use as fishing hooks, wound closure, pin a shirt sleeve to a shirt to make a sling, to get knots out of your fishing line, use on a blanket to make a sleeping bag or as part of your shelter. There are hundreds of uses, this is why you will see safety pins as a part of the best survival kits.
An alarming statistic was recently published by the Centers for Disease Control with regards to suicide. With all the resources being poured into social services and all of the agencies available to individuals, the United States, annual suicide rate still increased from nearly 36,000 to over 38,000 individuals during the past several years. The biggest increase was in the 50 – 59 year of age group. Nearly all other age brackets remained about the same.
Each and every one of us is the safety pin in each other’s lives. We are all here to hold each other up when we are about to fall. There are many people struggling to get by, it is up to all of us to provide the friendship and comfort needed.